When someone tells me - or I find out that a person, has feelings for me, my first reaction is always why? But why am I asking these people? There are other people in my life that have put up with me and stuck with me and loved me before these admirers/crushes/etc came along. These people tell me they love me (not in the romantic sense of course) but I never question it. Is it that we are taking the words “I love you” for granted that it loses it’s meaning? That it’s being said too much? Or is it because we don’t question it’s intent enough that we can just brush it off so easily? Why do you love me? 

“Go for personality. Looks are just a bonus.”
I know it’s true, but honestly, I’m not looking for one or the other. I’m looking for both. I don’t know if this makes me sound like a prick for having too big of an expectation on the opposite sex, but I don’t want ugly babies!!
Personality is something people develop as they grow up. And so are looks. But how prone are looks to change versus personality? Clothes can only “make” the person to a certain extent. If my children aren’t attractive, then there’s nothing else to blame but genetics, unlike personality which has a variety of factors influencing it.
Needless to say, this isn’t just about my future kids. It’s also about my future husband. I know you won’t be perfect but I don’t want to be with a dick so much as someone I wouldn’t want to bang. And if I can get you as close to perfect as possible, then that’s all the better for me and our future family. Sorry for all the pressure or whatever but if you can’t take it, then I just think you aren’t the one for me.

I think it’s cute how people celebrate anniversaries of how long they’ve been together. But I’m not going to publicize all the adventures and times we’ve had together on facebook or maybe even tumblr for that matter. I’m going to keep it between us. It’s OUR relationship and not the world’s. Besides, I don’t want to be keeping track of how long we’ve been together because I’ll be hoping that we stay together until the end of time. 

Love sincerely,
Me 

It is so precious. So much so that you don’t just give your heart to anybody. People think this is such common sense, but here they are throwing their love to others left and right, and crying about heartbreak and then later how they’ve learned from their past relationships. Give me a break … It doesn’t even matter if you’re ready for love. If it’s not with the right person, it just won’t work. Don’t call single people pricks for being single. At least, they’re smart enough to realize the downfalls of a relationship before they get into one and save themselves from heartbreak …

One of my friends was telling me how she wished she was more like me, where I’ve been living the single life because I am entirely too picky with my potential suitors. But let’s face it, we all want someone to live up to our expectations or at least challenge them. If they aren’t willing to go the distance/man up to the challenge, why should we, right? But even then, when you think you have it all, it might just be an illusion. How do you know it’s real and you aren’t falling too far too fast? Well, that’s the thing about love. You can’t expect to get any without a bit of pain and confusion as well. 

but honey, you are wasting my time. there are days where i think, maybe he changed. maybe he’ll do something different today and surprise me. but with all this time lost, the days still going by, i’m not so sure anything will be different. old habits die hard, resolutions easily become overdue. it’s not fun waiting around. it’s not fun going nowhere. i don’t know what’s on your mind and i can’t read you like i can other people. but if you are reading this, these are my feelings, and for the millionth time, i’ll be done waiting.